There's plenty I could be doing with extra money. How can I work it out, so we get the money back without a falling out?

"You must meet her for coffee and ask her what was going on at that time. Let her do all the talking. You were never in the wrong here and she probably knows that now."

I even need to think when it comes to the pronouns. We are so used to saying 'he' and 'she', but life has moved on, and we need to move with it

'There are so many mini trips away and presents and events before we even talk about the hen, I'm just exhausted thinking about it. The cost of all this is crazy.'

I hate when I hear of a part-time dad or mom. Even if people are not together, they still need to be there for the children. This part-time bullshit doesn’t cut it with me.

Even though you don’t want them at your party you will probably have to compromise, say the adults are invited, and you’re delighted to have them, but it’s a kid-free zone.

Here’s the question though, if our husband or wife or partner do have our passwords what are they going to do with them?

"It might seem that ye are at two opposite ends here, but I think we should look at the middle ground here. No matter what religion or no religion at all, ye are good people and believe in right from wrong."

This might happen again with this woman. She will keep acting like this until someone sets her straight.

'You have worked hard all your life making sure everyone else was taken care of, this is your time now, but it's all in your hands, it's up to you to change things'

'You’re right to question it and be proactive. Your husband needs to get up off his arse and support this'

"Your parents seem to be good people, they are obviously people of strong faith. People might not think much of this anymore, I really like it."

My daughter was invited but my husband did not want her to go, he felt she was too young. They are in fifth class, my daughter is nine.

"What if you brought home someone new and the others seemed cold towards them, and the same sister threw a comment to you, how would you feel?"

I go into a diet and weight loss mind set every year for the summer to get in shape for the Rose of Tralee. I swear every year that I won’t go back to my old ways, and I do if I’m being honest.

I know my mother will mention it at every opportunity this Christmas and she will have my aunts on my case too - I can feel her looking at me when there are babies in ads on TV

Should I insist we go to my family this Christmas or should we go our separate ways for the day and meet up again after Christmas?

"It’s a wonder there is any oxygen left in the room for anyone else when this buck starts... if left unchecked, this will kill off the team and any creativity that ye have."

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I remember when my own father died and thinking that this raw feeling will never go away, but it did.

"Our youngest daughter had advantages her sister didn't get. I feel very guilty about this."

"A heartbreak can look like many different things, or on the other side of this, it could be your friend trying to reinvent herself and getting a bit lost on the way."

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"You say she means well; she does in my arse."

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