15 Super Relatable IEP Meeting Memes for Moms
Looking for that perfect meme to describe how you feel about IEPs and IEP meetings? Here you go–everything from Hey Girl to Escape Room to RBF.
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Looking for that perfect meme to describe how you feel about IEPs and IEP meetings? Here you go–everything from Hey Girl to Escape Room to RBF.
You’re sitting in your IEP meeting. Things seem to be going well. Everyone is pleasant and there’s a constructive conversation. But your gut is telling…
Inside: Learn my #1 advocacy secret to reducing IEP meeting stress. I was waiting in the lobby. Mom pulled into the parking lot, made her…
Each state puts out data every year about special education students. I’m a data and policy nerd, so I love looking at it. One of…
I remember the first time I was gaslighted at an IEP meeting. It probably wasn’t the first time, but it was the first time that…
Inside: When you hate having an IEP it can be tough to stay positive. Here are tips for staying positive, even when dealing with unprofessional…
I receive a surprising amount of criticism for catering to women on this blog. Or, writing about them and to them. Sure, much of it…
My very first experience with a facilitated IEP meeting was not a good one. Things were very tense between the parents and the school. The…
Mediation, meee–deee-aayyy-shun! I’m singing that in the Cat in the Hat tune. Have you seen that episode where he sings about hibernation? Well, that’s what…
Inside: Learn what Special Education Due Process is, how to initiate the process and many important points to consider before filing for Due Process in…
I’d be willing to be my house and my car that 99% of all IEP parents have experienced the “Let’s just wait and see.” It’s…
“Make sure you cry at the IEP meeting, it shows them how passionate you are about your child!” I still cringe when I think about…
Welcome to another edition of Ask an Advocate. This is the feature on the blog where I, a special education advocate, answer reader questions. Today’s…
What’s old is new again and I’m reworking some old posts. Several years ago I discontinued the “Ask an Advocate” feature on the site. Now,…
What’s old is new again, so I’m reworking some old posts to bring them to the front page again. And, going totally retro with a…
Emotional Disturbance on your IEP: Understand the criteria for this category, plus a list of IEP goals, accommodations, and teaching strategies.
If you have a child with an IEP, you’ve probably heard the phrases “evidence based” vs “research based.” While the two terms are often used…
Today, we’re diving into something incredibly important: Mental Health Coloring Pages. Life can sometimes feel like a whirlwind of emotions, can’t it? But here’s the…
When does an IEP end? How do you end an IEP? What is the IEP age range?I know what you’re thinking. “21!” is what you…
What to know about getting a 1:1 aide or para on your child’s IEP. From what qualifies a child for a 1:1 aide to getting the para on the IEP.
Learning the meaning of IEP, what is an IEP plan, and what having an IEP means for your child. For as much time as I…
Emotional self-regulation is a necessary executive functioning skill that all kids need to develop. Some will require direct instruction.
This is probably the number one reason that parents dread IEP meetings. Right? For the most part, we expect to be told “No” when we…
Bullying at school. I hate it. It’s gross and happens everywhere-on the bus, at school. My standard disclaimer is that I am not an attorney,…
The Ultimate IEP Goal Bank! A free list of IEP Goals and IEP Objectives separated by category or area of need; includes a PDF of IEP goals.
On your child’s IEP, somewhere along the way you probably saw the word “trials” on the IEP. It’s usually used in an IEP goal, but…
IEP Goals for Handwriting | Handwriting issues can be much more than a fine motor planning issue. It could be dysgraphia, dyslexia, vision issues, or something else entirely.
One concept or behavior that you may be exposed to as an IEP parent is elopement. Unfortunately, I am not talking about the fun kind…
Remember this? Did you know that way back when…when Tupperware invented this toy, that you were using fine motor skills to play with it? If…
Before you all email me with hate mail and tell me that I shouldn’t use words like severe and profound, I’ll tell you to save…
The other day, my younger son and I were on my tablet. We were choosing team gear to purchase for his new AAU basketball team….
As parent, advocates and teacher, we understand the importance of social communication skills for our students. Pragmatic language is a crucial aspect of communication that…
Does your child keep getting sent home from school? Is the school constantly calling you to come pick them up due to behaviors? That’s an informal suspension.
“Every child deserves to be treated with dignity, be free from abuse, and treated as a unique individual with individual needs, strengths and circumstances. US…
I won’t ever forget the interaction I had with one of Kevin’s neurologists. We had a regular appointment/checkup. And he was a baby, like 2…
IEE stands for Independent Education Evaluation. It is a provision of IDEA, listed in the Parents’ Rights Booklet, or Procedural Safeguards. This will explain what…
With the advancement of technology, I feel like poor spelling skills get dismissed too easily. Too often, I’ve heard IEP team members say, “They don’t…
Video cameras are everywhere these days, including inside our schools. I often get inquiries from parents asking about their rights, and whether or not they…
The short answer is yes. But, the real answer to “can a parent request an IEP meeting any time?” is a bit more complex than…
Can a student refuse an IEP or can a parent refuse special education? It’s weird to me, because as an advocate, I’ve spent over a…
I looked at the mom/client sitting next to me at truancy court and gave her hand a squeeze. She looked up and gave me a…
Nothing aggravates me more as an advocate than when a parents asks about their IEP parents rights? When you ask me that, I know that…
I wrote the below article in March of 2016. Today, in an online call with a few dozen advocates, attorneys and a Policy Director for…
I remember I was working with this client one time. We had held an IEP meeting, and we were wrapping up a few loose ends….
Ask almost any Special Education Advocate, and they’ll tell you that Present Levels is the most important section of the IEP. Present Levels has several…
You met, you documented, you collected data and have an IEP that you feel hopeful about. Then, it’s not being followed. It’s a common parent…
If your child has an IEP or 504, can they get a shortened school day or modified school schedule as an accommodation? The short answer…
504 Plans certainly have their place in our education system. After all, they guarantee access to a student’s education, even when a disability may be…
Does your IEP team call you “Mom” at IEP meetings? Are you comfortable with that? Let’s explore the pros and cons to this common gesture, and ways to change it if you wish.
I got two inquiries recently that are very similar. Both parents asked for something on their child’s IEP and were told, “We don’t do that…
Before I get to the steps of how to get a 504 plan for your child, I feel the need to get on my soapbox…
Special Education Accommodations, Modifications and Supports/Services: All three of those are a huge concern for parents. I know this because it’s often one of the…
I’m a self-professed weirdo, but I just love NOREPs. Love love love them. Early on when I first became an advocate, I only worked in…
Since my son has had community based instruction on his IEP for almost a decade, I can always spot the CBI trips when I am…
Inside: Learn how to build a robust, meaningful autism IEP, including goals, accommodations, and even a sample IEP. For almost 10 years, readers have been…
So, I’ll just address this right from the get-go. The title says “IEP goals for low functioning students.” I said it–low functioning. Yes, I used…
Inside: Learn everything you need to know to start setting SMART goals, including the SMART goals acronym, smart goal examples and smart goal worksheets. Goals…
Look, since this is a monster of an article, I’ll be brief. I’ve been sitting on this for literally years–years ago someone asked if I…
As an advocate, I have seen firsthand the importance of vocabulary in academic success. Students who have a strong grasp of vocabulary are better able…
Is your head spinning at IEP meetings because of all the acronyms? Here are some of the most commonly used Disability and Special Education Acronyms. Free printable!
Parents are often surprised to learn that, many times, IDEA does not define something that we are expecting to find. IEP timelines and the IEP…
Who or what is the LEA in Special Education? What does it stand for? Can I exclude them from my IEP meeting?
If your child has an IEP, you undoubtedly are surrounded by special education acronyms all the time. One of the more frequently used acronyms is…
Inside: How do you know if your child’s inclusion classroom is truly an inclusive environment? Let’s break it down so you know what to look for.
Listening comprehension is a fundamental skill that lays the groundwork for effective communication, academic success, and social interaction. It refers to the ability to understand…
As a special education advocate who has attended hundreds of IEP meetings, nothing frustrates me more than dyslexia IEP meetings. Mind you, sensory issues come…
A student must learn to decode before they can move on to reading comprehension and reading fluency. Say it again. And again. There’s a reason…
For as long as I’ve been attending IEP meetings, one thing that continues to baffle me is reading. Basic reading skills are just that–basics. The…
Inside: Learn what phonemic awareness is and how to assess for it. Plus some IEP goals for Phonemic Awareness. The other day, my 13-year-old sports…
Inside: Learn what Letter Recognition OT goals are, why they’re important, and a list of example goals. It’s a familiar sight, dating back many decades….
Phonological awareness and phonemic awareness are two important concepts that are essential for reading success. These terms are often used interchangeably, but they actually refer…
Once a child has been identified as a student with a learning disability, it can be tough for the IEP team to come to agreement…
If your IEP student (at any age) is not yet toilet trained, then a toileting IEP goal or toileting protocol may be added to their…
I am wildly passionate about kids being toilet trained if it is a possibility. I never dreamed I would be a passionate advocate for toilet…
As an advocate who has attended hundreds of IEP meetings, IEP transition time is one of the most frustrating times for me. I find a…
Before I get started with this list of Life Skills Functional Goals for an IEP, I want to make one thing clear. That is, remember,…
Transition planning within an IEP refers to the process of preparing students with disabilities for life after high school, specifically focusing on their post-secondary education,…
I was leery of how I could use the word “postsecondary” and not create any confusion. To be clear, there are no IEPs in college….
Parents, you need to take ownership of the IEP transition goals and process for your child. Here’s how to start.
We want our kids to live as independently as possible. IEP transition is the time for the IEP team to begin to make that happen….
Telling time is an essential executive function that our kids need to live independently. Of course supports and accommodations can be put in place, but…
Personal hygiene skills is something that many of us take for granted. If you do not pick up on social cues, and your interoception is…
Inside: Our list of kindergarten IEP goals including kindergarten math IEP goals, kindergarten reading and writing goals and more. So, there’s a reason why I…
Inside: A list of Functional Money and Functional Math IEP goals, including modern money skills like apps and debit cards. Remember when we were little,…
For a long time, I purposely did not include lists like this on my site–lists of things like math word problem IEP goals. I refrained…
Can students be excluded from field trips for behavior? Imagine this–your school is planning a field trip. But, they call you and say “Oh, I’m…
Student counseling is listed as a Related Service in IDEA. Actually, Parent Counseling and Training is too. But that’s another post for another day. I…
One of the biggest obstacles that some IEP students have is lack of appropriate, functional communication. A lack of functional communication is often one of…
A printable list of Accommodations for Anxiety for an IEP or 504 Plan, to get you on the path to a more peaceful and calm day for your child at school.
Inside: Learn how to use Student Strengths or Child Strengths on an IEP, and the importance of doing so. Plus the snippet from IDEA about…
When a child has math skills and can apply them to everyday life, it can be something we take for granted. Many of us are…
I will never forget this one day when Kevin was a preschooler. We had an IEP meeting, and one of his proposed math IEP goals…
Parents can certainly assist the IEP team with developing goals. One IEP area that I find parents and teachers struggle with is addressing the skill…
“How do I get Wilson Reading Program added to my child’s IEP?” That’s a question that comes up a lot. If your child is a…
Before we get started on things to think about for your middle school IEP or high school IEP, there are a few things parents should…
We do so much for our kids, and we mean well. But time marches on, whether we want it to or not. We have to…
Everything you need for Reading and Reading Comprehension and your IEP: IEP goals, strategies, evaluations, and more.
It’s no secret that many kids with disabilities struggle socially and struggle to build and maintain friendships. When Brian tells me stories of kids at…
If your child has negative behaviors at school, they should receive an FBA and a Behavior Plan. Here are behavior goal ideas for your IEP.
If your child is struggling with executive function disorder, here are some accommodation and strategies to add to your IEP or 504 plan.
Here you will find Executive Functioning IEP Goals, executive functioning IEP goals for ADHD, and some IEP Organizational Goals. This is one of the oldest…
Task avoidance is a common problem that affects many people, from children to adults. It can be defined as the tendency to avoid or delay…
Inside: Task Avoidance Behavior (lack of task initiation skills) is often associated with Autism and ADHD. Here are some IEP goals and strategies to assist…
Teaching inference to kids is an essential part of learning to read and comprehend texts. Inference is the ability to draw conclusions based on evidence…
“Mommy, is that Lady Gaga?” When my youngest was a toddler, he LOVED Lady Gaga. I have no idea why or where it came from,…
Inside: Collecting IEP Data doesn’t have to be overwhelming. You can get our free IEP Data Collection Sheets, including templates and reusable forms. A few…
Does your child struggle with Working Memory issues, and do you want them added to the IEP? Have you heard parents talk about working memory…
Does your child misplace things? Forget things? Lose things? They may need some IEP accommodations for working memory. But you know what? We all do…
Inside: Discover how setting Work Completion IEP goals can help students with disabilities improve their academic performance and achieve success in school and beyond. Includes…
Work completion is a crucial executive function skill for students to learn as it plays a significant role in their academic and personal lives. For…
Disabled students often encounter unique challenges that need individualized support. When that support is not received, you may encounter school avoidance or school refusal. As…
I’m a good learner, but I’m terrible at studying. Always have been. Other than re-reading chapters and notes and rote memorization, I never knew what…
Study skills are some of the highest and most complex of all the executive functions. Depending on the child’s grade and expectations, they will be…
IEP goals for focus and attention can be tailored to address specific needs of students, such as reducing distractions or increasing sustained attention.
Many students struggle with Impulse Control Disorders, secondary to other learning disabilities. Here are goal and accommodation ideas to add to an IEP or 504 plan.
15 Activities and Lifestyle Changes you can make to improve focus and attention and decrease anxiety.
Do you remember back when Britney Spears shaved her head? Since we know that she struggles with mental health issues sometimes, she likely struggles with…
Inside: What to do when your child has an IEP but is still failing. Can a child with an IEP be held back? Can a…
One little-known feature of IDEA is the section on parent training. Parents are often unaware that they can ask for training and/or counseling as part…
Wow. So I have to do a post on IEP Homebound Instruction for Disabled Students. Granted, I guess at some point, there will be a…
As one of my attorney friends said, “This question seems to come up every spring for the past 20 years.” Walking at graduation but not…
Normally, I’m against homebound IEP placement for most students. After all, it is one of the most restrictive placement options. It often gets used and…
Any IEP team member will tell you–IEP meetings are a big deal. Trying to gather 5 or 10 people with various schedules is challenging. But,…
Inside: Parents often disagree with their IEP teams when it comes to choosing IEP goals. Who gets to decide what goal goes on an IEP?…
Inside: Homework. Just saying the word elicits a lot of feelings. Here are some IEP Accommodations for Homework, including common questions and tips for implementation….
Inside: There are 5 times during the IEP process that are conducive to ‘extra’ parent participation. Learn what they are and how to use them…
Inside: Discover IDEA ‘stay put’ rights. Ensure your child’s current special education placement remains during disputes. Learn more about this important IDEA provision. I find…
Nothing disappoints me more than when I hear about a parent not learning the IEP process and maximizing their rights in the process. Look, I’m…
Inside: Private schools can provide special education but are not required to provide FAPE. It gets complicated, so read on to fully understand your rights…
IEP Progress Monitoring and IEP Data Collection are among the most important things about an IEP. And yet tracking IEP goals is one area that…
How to Write an IEP for Special Education, step by step.
When I was a special educator in Maryland, we provided an IEP Snapshot to all of our general educators who had a student with an…
If you have a struggling reader, it’s likely that you can see how they are working so hard to read. But, in asking for IEP…
If your child has an IEP, and is taking a life skills type of curriculum, you may have heard the term “certificate of completion” mentioned…
This is one area that I’m not often comfortable discussing–restrictive environments in the special education setting. See, I have K in a very restrictive setting….
Inside: If your disabled child is in the 0-3 age range, you may have some questions about IDEA part C and Early Intervention Services. Here’s…
For a long time, as I worked with clients, we fought the battle to get a child an IEP for ADHD rather than just the…
It is estimated that 5-12% of all American kids have some type of ADHD. If you found this Accommodations Guide, chances are you have a…
Presumed competence, in my experience, is a term that gets a lot of buzz. But not a lot of traction, certainly not in IEP meetings….
Ok, so here we go. I used to have IEP reevaluation information in my post about IEP evaluations. But, I’ve since decided that IEP re-evaluations…
Inside: How to Get an IEP for your Child. Whether you’re trying to get an IEP for autism, get an IEP for ADHD or even…
Inside: Learn the key differences between a 504 and an IEP, so you can make the right decision for your child. Quite often, parents in…
Inside: Many schools ask for or demand medical information. Can they do that? Can they require an IEP student to be medicated? We’re answering all…
Inside: What’s the difference between educational autism vs medical autism? Is autism a medical diagnosis? Can schools diagnose autism? Answering all of that and more….
I was in a heated IEP meeting one time, and a teacher angrily blurted out, “What do you want from me? Do you want me…
Inside: Many parents consider paying for Lindamood Bell programs to help their kids read. But, is it worth the money? Several years ago, my cousins…
Inside: A Manifestation Determination Meeting is one of the most stressful parts of the IEP process. Hopefully you never have to do this. But, here’s…
Inside: I hear from many parents who “don’t even want to bother” with an IEP. It’s a sentiment I understand, but you may want to…
Is it any wonder that Moms cry at IEP Meetings? Pretend I’ve invited you to your child’s school for a meeting. And this meeting will…
Inside: Learn what Universal Design for Learning is and how it might help your child with an IEP. What is Universal Design for Learning? Just…
Inside: They shouldn’t, but appearances matter. Here are tips for what to wear to a Parent Teacher conference or IEP meeting. It matters. I wish…
Inside: Differentiated Instruction is a term that gets a lot of buzz these days. But, while differentiating instruction has a lot of value, it further…
Inside: Can an IEP meeting be held without parents? What does IDEA say about this, and what should you do if the IEP team is…
Inside: Learn the child’s role at an IEP meeting, and why they should work toward full participation and even running their IEP meeting. Should my…
Inside: Your first IEP meeting, or even your 10th IEP meeting, can be stressful and scary. Here is what to expect at an IEP meeting….
Inside: You feel that your child’s needs cannot be met in your local school. You want an out of district placement, so how do you…
Inside: How long does the school have to respond to an IEP meeting request? And, what are the guidelines for an emergency IEP meeting? All…
Inside: Do you feel that your child is in the wrong placement? Parents often misunderstand special education placement and out of district placements. So, I’m…
Inside: How long do IEP meetings last? And what should you do if you feel your IEP meeting is too short or too long? Sharing…
Inside: Answering all your questions about how to request an IEP meeting. Includes letter templates, emergency IEP meeting information (only in California!) and who can…
Inside: Challenging that old urban legend that parents should bring donuts to IEP meetings. I understand you want to be nice. You want to be…
Inside: After the IEP meeting, here is what to expect. Including the after IEP meeting email, and when you should receive the final IEP. It…
Inside: It’s best practice, but not required, to have an IEP Meeting Agenda. Here are some samples and templates for IEP Meeting Agendas for you…
Inside: Learn what 10 common IEP parent mistakes are, and how you can avoid them. Raise your hand if you just LOVE going to IEP…
Inside: Learn the IDEA wording about scheduling IEP meetings and parental participation. Whew, can we please put this issue to bed, once and for all?…
Inside: Learn what Orton Gillingham is, how it helps kids learn to read, and I’m answering important questions about OG IEP Goals. (yikes!) If your…
In the first quarter of 2020, we had no idea how much our lives were going to change. Not just for the next couple of…
Email. How did we live without it? IEPs are relatively new, not even 50 years old. Obviously, e-mail is even newer. And, as technology changes,…
Inside: How to Request an IEP Evaluation and be the best advocate you can be, for your child, during the process. You will definitely want…
Inside: Get 25 free IEP letter templates, including my e-book “How to Ask your IEP Team for just about Anything.” If you’re in this for…
A Parents’ Guide to Functional Behavior Assessments FBAs in Education, Behavior Plans, and more; including how and when to request an FBA.
Inside: Learn what IEP testing is, and what IEP tests you should (or could) ask for. Different variations of questions come up about IEP evaluations…
Inside: Learn the timelines of the IEP Evaluation Process, including how to interpret some of the IEP assessments and get ready for your IEP eligibility…
As an advocate, I have attended literally hundreds of IEP meetings. I know you, Moms. You’re stressed and anxious. This IEP meeting checklist is one…
Inside: Learn how to STOP STRESSING out over IEP meetings, and be your child’s best advocate. A Special Education Advocate who has attended hundreds of…
Inside: Learn what an IEP meeting is, and what is the purpose of an IEP meeting. And, how to be your child’s best advocate at…
Parent-Teacher conferences can look different for Special Education and IEP students. Here’s what to ask and what to know.
Inside: Learn what IDEA says about the required components of an IEP. An Individualized Education Program (IEP) is a written plan that outlines the unique…
What are we doing to our kids that so many of them are either a) having breakdowns and mom has to be called to come get them b) melting down after school to the point it interferes with normal household activities or c) refusing to go to school.
Inside: Learn how to write effective IEP goals with this step-by-step guide. Discover the formula for writing measurable goals and objectives tailored to your student’s…
Inside: Learn how to understand and troubleshoot an IEP if the child is repeatedly not meeting IEP goals. And, Proving IEP Goals Were not Developed…
The After School Meltdown, we’ve all seen it. Here’s what to know about after school restraint collapse, and getting your IEP team on board to support your child.
Learn what an IEP provides and what a 504 provides, and why it’s not a case of “more is better. Your child should not need both.
Inside: Yes, an IEP is a legally binding document. Understand the framework and laws behind IEPs and what to do if you have a legal…
What Qualifies a Child for an IEP? What is an IEP student? Is it only for learning disabilities, and what are they? All explained by a Special Education Advocate.
A discrepancy model may be used to determine IEP eligibility. Some states still use the RTI model. Learn what the difference is and how it applies to your child.
How do you calculate IEP minutes or IEP service minutes? When do IEP minutes have to be made up? How are IEP minutes determined?
How long is a benchmark goal on an IEP? And what is the difference between IEP goal benchmarks and IEP goal objectives?
What is a Paraprofessional? Understand hiring requirements, salary and what they can offer your child.
SLD Specific Learning Disability is one of the IDEA eligibility categories. Here’s what you need to know about characteristics of SLD, examples and definitions.
100 Examples of Low Tech Assistive Technology in the classroom; suggestions for reading, writing, autism, dyslexia and much more.
What is OHI on the IEP? A thorough explanation of the Other Health Impairments eligibility category, including ADHD and its listing under OHI Eligibility.
Inside: Take a deep dive into learning about AT Assistive Technology, and how it differs from AAC. And 15 IEP goals for assistive technology.
Inside: Browse, print, and use this comprehensive list of 504 Accommodations for Students with Disabilities.
Uncovering the Two Types of IEP Violations: Are Your Child’s Rights Being Upheld?
What to do if you are denied an IEP because “his grades are fine!”
If your child has juvenile arthritis, they may require a 504 plan and 504 accommodations to be successful at school. Here are some juvenile arthritis accommodations.
Professional, accurate, written communication is essential to the IEP and Special Education Process. Tips to get you on the path to having your concerns heard.
What does IDEA say about required members of an IEP team? And what are their roles and responsibilities? All explained by an Special Education Advocate.
I have a friend and there are 18 school staff people at her IEP meetings. I’ve mentioned many times before how large Kevin’s IEP team…
When Your School Calls CPS Sometimes I hear the stories and think “How, how did we get here?” And, many times I’ve seen a parent…
IEP Laws and Regulations Several years ago, I was at a fundraiser. It was for an agency that assists disabled people. So, naturally, they had…
Tell me if you’ve heard of a scenario like this. It’s the perfect example of a child who lacks proprioceptive skills. Students are in a…
“That’s a Child Find issue.You need to report them for Child Find!” If your child has an IEP, chances are you have heard these phrases.
If your IEP meeting is tomorrow, you don’t have much time. Read these sanity-saving tips so that you’re ready, but not overwhelmed.
Some studies show that autistic people may struggle with the perception of time. Remember, time can be abstract, so it is our responsibility to give…
Does your child’s IEP transfer from state to state? Can you remain in the same school if you move? Here’s what you need to know about transferring an IEP.
6 Principles of Special Education I have to open this post with a shout-out to blog reader Mike T. He emailed me a link to…
FAPE This trend is really bothersome to me. I have recently had conversations with several different parents who are unfamiliar with the term FAPE or…
Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act is a federal law designed to protect the rights of individuals with disabilities in programs and activities that receive…
IEP for Dysgraphia “Dysgraphia? What’s is dysgraphia? I’ve never heard of it!” This is a scenario that has come up many times to parents in…
When the ESEA was enacted over 50 years ago, one concept borne out of that was Title 1 and Title 1 schools. Despite being around…
IEP or 504 for Trauma or PTSD It’s amazing how we go through life, just doing what we do, not knowing what we don’t know….
IEP Meeting Questions Over the past decade, I have attended hundreds of IEP meetings and met with hundreds of families. And, with the large chat…
504 Plans for Food Allergies On this website, you will find many articles that discuss the overuse of 504 plans. They were never intended to…
How to Find Out if a Teacher or Therapist is Certified “How do I check if a teacher or therapist is qualified?” “I bet she’s…
Refused IEP Evaluations Let me be blunt. If your child’s IEP evaluations suck, the rest of your IEP will be garbage. Without good evaluations, the…
How do I know if the IEP is working? Your child getting an IEP is not the final step in your IEP journey. It is…
Now that quarantine is over, many school districts are still providing many evaluations and support virtually. Here’s what parents need to know.
You think your child needs an IEP. The school offered a 504, RTII or MTSS. So, what’s the difference, and what are your options? Next steps for parents.
14 Categories of Disabilities in IDEA There are 14 categories of disabilities listed in IDEA. Autism Deaf-blindness Deafness Developmental delay (DD) Emotional disturbance (ED) Hearing…
High School IEP Surprisingly, I am asked the question about IEPs in High School quite often. More than I am comfortable with, but more on…
Can you Win a Due Process Hearing without a lawyer? We’d do anything for our kids. Anything. And since some of us have been dealt…
Life Skills Classroom | Special Education Resource Room I really hate the term life skills. I mean, after all, we ALL need life skills. It’s…
IEP Issues Hurdles slow you down. If you know they are there, you can run faster than if you don’t know they are there. But…
When was IDEA passed? IDEA was first passed in 1975 as Federal legislation. However, its history began much before that. The history of special education…
FBAs and Behavior Plans FBAs and Behavior Plans are a common component of IEPs. And, after 12 years of advocacy, I’m seeing the same issues…
IEP Attorney For many families, there comes a time in your IEP journey that you and the school reach an impasse. You’ve gone back and…
When you hear most special ed parents discussing “transition,” most of the time they are talking about the older transition when the child is either…
Pros and Cons of Homeschooling In recent years, many of us were thrown into some version of homeschooling that we never planned on. Those experiences…
Why your IEP needs a Vision Statement It’s called the Black Hole of 21. Once you are comfortably settled into the IEP world and get…
Can a School Demand Medical Information? I can’t believe that I am even doing a blog post on this topic. But it’s only Tuesday and…
IRLP Individual Remote Learning Plan Yesterday a blog reader asked if I could further explain IRLP. IRLP stands for Individual Remote Learning Plan. It’s a…
Sex Ed and the Disabled Child Yep! I’m going there! This topic makes some people uncomfortable and I know it’s difficult to even think of…
AngelSense My friend and fellow advocate Susan loves to tell this story. One morning she woke up and her son was gone. He is autistic…
Seizure Action Plan I could handle the not talking. I could handle the stimming. I could handle the developmental delays. And the picky eating, and…
Retaking Tests Accommodation Allowing a student to retake a test is a very common IEP accommodation. And, at first glance, it seems like a reasonable…
Online and Virtual Learning Accommodations Some kids really struggle with online distance learning, and need some accommodation ideas. Particularly those with attention, sensory, and other…
Extended Time on Tests Back when I was in high school (and no, not leaning on my cane and wagging my finger) we did not…
Compensatory Education and Compensatory Services If your school district does not give your child the special education services they are supposed to, you may be…
Is there a Dyscalculia Test? This is a scenario that has been coming up more frequently lately. As parents become more informed, we are better…
Social Awareness You know how when we were little, and you wanted a sleepover with a friend, and one of our parents would come home,…
Specially Designed Instruction Specially Designed Instruction, or SDIs, is actually one of my favorite things to talk about when it comes to IEPs. The name…
OSEP Dear Colleague Letters Parents, here is another great tool for your advocacy toolkit. And yes, another issue that was brought to my attention in…
Delaying your Child’s Kindergarten One popular theme among parents is redshirting your kindergartener. That is, the practice of not enrolling them in kindergarten the year…
What can I do about missed therapy hours at school? I hear this question a lot. And this is an area where there is a…
Yes, your IEP can Have Academic and Non-Academic Goals. Today, I had heard this phrase three times before 6 am. Yes, really. See, every morning…
I’ve attended more IEP meetings than I can count. Or even care to count. I get it–parents only call in a Special Education Advocate when…
Written Expression Writing is not a simple task. It involves a complex process of using and coordinating various cognitive processes. Thus, a lot of students,…
Important items that must be on your child’s IEP. “I got a call to pick up my daughter today because she put a child in…
IEP Vocational Assessment “She likes to braid hair.” Several years ago, I was an Educational Surrogate for a teen in a neighboring county. That sentence…
Receptive vs Expressive Language If your child is being evaluated for Early Intervention or Special Education Services, you may be introduced to the terms ‘receptive…
Twice-exceptional or 2E kids have both exceptional abilities and disabilities. In some ways, they are gifted. However, they may also face developmental or learning challenges….
When your Aide or Para is Absent This issue has me really ticked off lately. Mostly because of how often it is happening. “I’m so…
What happens if I don’t sign the IEP? Short answer: Nothing. In most cases. Only 2-3 states require a parent’s signature on the IEP to…
RTI Response to Intervention | MTSS What is RTI at school? Who determines what RTI looks like for a kid? Can a parent refuse RTI?…
Can you Suspend a Student with an IEP? It happened again. You were at work, in the middle of…working. And the phone rings again. You…
Maximum Length of School Bus Ride Did you know that some school students, particularly those in rural areas such as Reservations, may ride the school…
What are IEP Related Services? According to IDEA, these are the related services in Special Education. audiology counseling services early identification family training-counseling and home…
Confusing Legal IEP Terms There are some words in the IEP process that seem to create more chaos than cooperation. And darnit parents, there are…
Special Education Classroom Observation “Can I observe my child’s classroom?” I’ve been hearing this one a lot lately. And unfortunately, this issue often brings out…
Special Education Transportation “It’s the bus. It’s always the bus!” My former supervisor used to say that so often. So many issues around a school…
IEP Cover Page Imagine for a moment that you are a teacher and it’s the first day of class. Every child is wearing a baseball…
Can an IEP be changed without parental consent? For the purposes of this post, it assumes that you (parent) already have an initial IEP in…
IEP in College? No, there are no IEPs in college. That’s a statement of fear that I hear from a lot of parents. And, it’s…
How to Write IEP Parent Concerns. I’m going to wag my finger at you–from this day forward, you do a Parent Concerns Letter for your…
IEP Goals How many goals should an IEP have? Who writes IEP goals? Can parents submit IEP goal ideas? What if my child doesn’t meet…
What is LRE Least Restrictive Environment? Students must be educated in the least restrictive environment to the maximum extent possible, and cannot use budget issues…
Recording School IEP Meetings Can you (audio) record your IEP meeting? It’s a question that I’ve seen parents and advocates discuss quite a bit. And…
HIPAA vs FERPA It’s exhausting. This comes up so often in the group and it’s exhausting. Every few weeks, a teacher will say something, or…
IEP Unilateral Placements One of the greatest IDEA misunderstandings among parents is the concept of Unilateral Placements. There is a lot of misinformation about them,…
IEP Eligibility Your child has an IEP. Or they do not. Perhaps they were found ineligible. Maybe you were offered a 504 or RTI instead…
What to Ask for on your IEP “I don’t know what to ask for on my IEP!” That question comes up often in our Facebook…
Should you move to a more IEP friendly school district? It’s not a very popular trend, but this does happen occasionally. Families who move from…
Section 504 and Extracurricular Activities The short answer is yes. “Participation in extracurricular athletics can be a critical part of a student’s overall educational experience….
IEPs and Divorce Sometimes the ‘happily ever after’ just isn’t. Things change and you find yourself divorcing, and rebuilding a life you thought was forever….
IEP Behavior Plans: Not Working This is coming up more frequently in the Facebook group. Your child had an FBA, they have a behavior plan…
OCR Complaint I know, we complain too much. What can I say, it’s a complaints-based system. One of the remedies that parents have in special…
IEP Parent Participation This is a concept that I really need parents to grab on to and internalize. I hope that this brings you that…
Neuropsych Evaluations If your child has an IEP, and you’ve been immersed in the world of special education, at some point you have probably heard…
Special Factors in the IEP Most of the questions that we receive as educational advocates are about the implementation of the IEP. Let’s face it….
Not Following 504 Plan Ok, your child has a 504 Plan. You provided the necessary documentation and they drew it up. You think it’s pretty…
Charter Schools and IEPs-Special Education Charter Schools and IEPs or Special Education is a very misunderstood concept, even though the law is pretty clear. Some…
Taking Away Recess as Punishment ‘Can the school take away my child’s recess?’ ‘They withhold his recess as punishment!’ If you found yourself saying these…
Effects of Zero Tolerance Policies in Schools I will never forget that mom’s face. Never before have I seen a woman be carrying so much…
Job Coach for Special Education The statistics are abysmal. Last I checked, the unemployment rate for adults with disabilities is around 70-80%. That is, fewer…
Can an IEP be removed? One of the, ahem, benefits of this job is that I get to talk to all kinds of parents. That…
School Educational Records We were seated around a huge U-shaped setup. I was directly across from the school district’s attorney, though we were a good…
Draft IEP Timelines “Well, Mrs. Lightner, we are not going to be making any changes to this IEP today. Oh lordy. Do I remember that…
Prior Written Notice-PWN How many times have you heard phrases like these, at IEP meetings, when you’ve suggested something? “I don’t get it…I did everything…
Developmental Delay It’s weird, right? Your child has had an IEP for years, and his disability classification has always been Developmental Delays. Now, all of…
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